Emotional Conditioning: How to Overcome Negative Patterns

Daniel Domaradzki / 12 Nov ’25

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Negative emotional patterns are the core of what holds most people back. These automatic reactions are the result of a process called emotional conditioning. As a spiritual and mind hacking coach, I see these patterns not as permanent flaws, but as mental programs. Many mental programs are useful (like automatically brushing your teeth), but others are simply outdated scripts. Like any script, an unwanted one can be identified, interrupted, and rewritten.

This act of mental reprogramming is an operative practice that requires a syncretic approach, blending psychological techniques with practical, energetic work to achieve a total system restore.

What Are Mental Programs

A mental program is an automatic, learned script of thought, feeling, and behavior. The unwanted ones are the negative emotional patterns that cause you problems. These programs are created and reinforced on two levels.

Psychological Viewpoint: Learned Scripts

The process of emotional conditioning is a form of classical conditioning (also known as Pavlovian conditioning).

  1. An original event (like a trauma) produces a strong, negative emotional response.
  2. A neutral trigger (a specific word, a tone of voice, a location) gets paired with that original event.
  3. After repetition, the neutral trigger alone becomes enough to launch the full negative emotional response.

This creates the conditioned response—the mental program (in this scenario, a negative one). It is a neural pathway that now runs automatically, often before your conscious mind can catch up.

Energetic Viewpoint: Energy Patterns

From an energy healer‘s perspective, this mental program exists as a distinct energy pattern within your aura (biofield). It is a structured, self-perpetuating circuit of energy. A negative energy pattern disrupts the healthy, natural flow of Ki. This disruption, in turn, causes energy blockages (unhealthy energy flow) to form, often in or around a specific chakra (like the Heart Chakra or Solar Plexus Chakra). In the end, you end up having two problems: the pattern (the program) and the blockage (the energetic silt it created).

4-Step Reprogramming Method

Overcoming an unwanted mental program requires working on both problems. You must debug the pattern and also clear the blockage it caused. This is the four-step, pragmatic method I use.

1. Identification (Become The Observer)

You cannot change a program while it is running you. The first step is to create separation through meditation. As a practitioner with over two decades of regular meditation experience (since 2000), I can attest this is the most foundational skill.

The Technique: Practice disidentification. Sit quietly and watch your thoughts and emotions as if they were clouds. You are not the anger; you are the awareness watching the anger. This observer state is your true self, the mental programmer. From this calm, disidentified state, you can finally read the code (the limiting belief) behind the mental pattern without being consumed by it.

2. Interruption (Break the Autonomic Loop)

Once you can see the mental program as it begins, you must interrupt it. This is a pattern interrupt, a mind-hacking technique.

The Technique: An automatic program runs on momentum. A pattern interrupt is a conscious, willed act that breaks that momentum. The moment you feel the familiar anger or fear starting, do something to “scramble the signal.”

  • Physically: Snap a rubber band on your wrist.
  • Mentally: Yell “STOP!” in your own mind.
  • Verbally: Change the subject or ask a bizarre, unrelated question.

This hack stops the subconscious script and gives your conscious programming mind a chance to take control.

3. Reprogramming (Installing New Code)

Once you’ve interrupted the old program, install a new one, a constructive and useful one.

Cognitive Reframing: Use reframing or affirmations. For example, if the old script is “I am not worthy,” the new one is “I am the source of my own power.”

Sigil Magick: This is where operative practice is highly effective. As a Chaos Magick adept, I use sigil magick. This is the art of encoding a new belief (“I am the source of my own power”) into a sigil (a symbol), charging it via gnosis, and launching it directly into the subconscious. This is a form of enchantment that effectively rewrites the pattern itself.

4. Clearing (Removing Energetic Residue)

You have rewritten the pattern, but you must still dredge the silt. This is the energy healing step. The old mental program has left a wake of energy blockages and energetic residue.

Reiki Healing: As a Reiki Master-Teacher, I use Reiki self healing. Lay your hands on the chakra associated with the pattern (e.g., the Heart Chakra for grief). Channel Ki into that area with the intent to dissolve the old, stagnant energy blockage.

Psychosomatic Training: As the developer of this method, I use an active training approach. This involves using interoception to feel the precise location and texture of the energetic residue, then applying targeted somatic breathwork to release its stored emotional charge, and finally using conscious Ki energy manipulation and trauma-informed visceralization to dissolve the blockage and actively re-pattern the underlying energetic imprint.

Starving vs. Feeding the Archetypes

From an esoteric adept’s view, an unwanted mental program is a parasitic thought-form, or a destructive archetype, that you are feeding with your emotional energy. The 4-step method is a way to starve this old archetype and feed a new one.

AspectNegative ArchetypePositive Archetype
IdentityA destructive archetype (e.g., “The Victim,” “The Martyr”).A constructive archetype (e.g., “The Sovereign,” “The Healer”).
FuelAutomatic, uncontrolled, and negative emotional reactions that bring nothing but self-destruction.Conscious, intentional acts of mental reprogramming (sigils, affirmations).
ResultThe negative pattern strengthens, and the resulting energy blockage deepens.Neuroplasticity: the brain rewires, and the old blockage is cleared.

You are actively disintegrating one psychological entity and integrating (or merging with) a new, empowered one.

Conclusion: You Are the Programmer

The negative mental programs created by emotional conditioning may feel like a life sentence, but they are not. They are automatic scripts left over from a previous version of your mental operating system. You are not the program. You are the programmer. By using this syncretic blend of meditation, mind-hacking, and energy healing, you now have every tool you need to debug the pattern, clear the blockage, and write a new, more powerful, and authentic script for your life.